change

dis few days i had not been online...coz i was bz wit completing the puzzle for my mother...her birthday on sun wat...so not muc time left...now i restin lor...until now completed abt 3/5-3/4 liao lor...shld b finishin by sat ba... if not sun mornin muz finish b4 i go cc lor...but shld b can de la...i tonite goin to do unitl abt 12 ba...wich means still got abt 8h from now...haha...
anyway i was readin my ogl's od...its a she btw...well...quite pessimistic ba...i realise ppl tend to b veri pessimistic wan it cums to diary...i guess dis is normal ba...after all...does things tt u cant say face to face it to b said dis way...so more or less the sad sad things all fill up ur diary...summore for most ppl...when writing deir diary dey shld b alone ba...at moz is siblings around lor...so tend to b more low ba...unless is dose hyper ppl la...nv die down one...haha...
anyways...after reading her blog i realise tt i m always not considerate of others feelins...not tt she direct it at mi...juz tt she wrote sth in general den it juz happens so tt i m sumhow lik tt...den earlier on i was readin email abt ppls character sorted into horoscope... mth of birth...n the first letter of ur name...den i realise tt i dey r quite accurate...n at the same time i realise tt my character is not tt prefect after all...i no no one perfect...but at least it does not meet my expectations...
anyway...i realise tt i get angry ezily...or agitated...anyway u wan to put it...n a way it makes mi sad after tt...n tt habit has got to go...everytime i go back dance i get angry...n start to shout n pump...haiz...sooner or later the juniors will distest my presence...summore i m veri violent lor...for no gd reason i hit ppl...i shld no tt ppl dun lik it lor...n the worse thing is dey tell mi b4 one lor...sianz...sumtimes juz feel lik banishin myself to another place...haiz...
so i hav decided to change...for 2 reasons...first wich is the moz important...for the benefit of all my friends...n the second is i wan to prove tt ppls character cannot b classified usin sum simple test or quiz...or wateva it is...so if u ppl c mi vialate any of dis things...pls remind mi...10z...
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24hr!:i hav decided to take sth from my ogl's blog...sori hor shi yan...take w/o ur permission...:P
The fundamentals of love
Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on her. You found yourself charmed by the way she talks, the way she dresses herself to show off her best features and the way she embraces life with her laughter. It seemedas if a mysterious "chemistry effect" has suddenly developed to draw you closer to her. You two then began to meet regularly, and you discover more things that you admire about her. Her clever ideas, her healthy values and the way she stands up for you when others doubt you. You find yourself thinking of her not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level. After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have between each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship. In other words, the feeling is really unique -no one else seems able to replace her in your heart. So both of you agree to go steady and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.
When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship, you forgot how it all began. You start to take your partner for granted.Why can't she laugh in a more ladylike manner? Why doesn't she dress herself more trendily? Why must she assert her views and point out your silly mistakes? Is she really the one for you? To be fair to yourself and to her, take some time to reflect on your "love memory". The "love memory' contains all the reasons that you fell in love with her right from Day One. It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving her. Pre-steady days, did you heap compliments on her for the brave way she spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like her unusual fashion sense that makes her stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you criticising or finding fault with her now that she is your girlfriend?Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us. ou have forgotten the reasons you admired her during the friendship phase. Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in coldstorage. As her boyfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about her. These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.
The Secret Of Strong Relationships
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirlwind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance? Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (and vice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical aspects. So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory". Discover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish with a newfound vigour.L-Listen O-Overlook V-Voice E-EffortLove is to listen to the needs of the other party, giving without asking for returns.
Overlook the faults and find the plus point of the other party.
Voice out & say sweet things and express your happiness and words of encouragement for the other party.
Putting in Effort, keep putting in more time to find the world of love.
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